Why I hobby

[Ursus]

I finished my shower this morning and was getting ready to go to work. I get dressed and go to my wife's bedside to give her a kiss. She appeared to be sleeping, so I reach in close to kiss her. And her reaction? She swats her hand and hits me in the face. Isn't that sweet?

Need I say more? Don't judge a hobbyist based upon his frequency of appts and whether or not he is married or with an SO. Most of the guys on here have women in their lives, but most of those women are unbearable assholes most of the time. So, us guys hobby.

No, it is not necessary to tell me to leave my wife. Or even to try and improve things with her. This is the way things are. I am not complaining so much as I am informing and educating those that might be uninformed. I could marry again, but I know - from experience - that my next potential wife will be a bitch in a different way than my current SO. All women are assholes. That's just the way God created things.

I never feel guilty when I hobby or when I take in a girlfriend. It is my only escape from the relentless bitchiness from the other women in my life. Don't let anyone ever shame you into quitting the hobby. Hobbying is no different than those that go to Yoga class to destress from a week of pressure.

Regards,

 

[Hangdai]

For many guys, especially those married a while, nature is not kind when it comes to aging between a man and woman.

The relationship in general may be great, it just happens that the action in the bedroom isn't the same as it use to be.

Plus, I was always more naturally into sex, but as time goes on, the body just can't keep up with what the partner wants, and many wives or partners can't perform for many physical health reasons , it's not their fault, do we leave them? Do we regret ever having them in our lives?

Hobbying helps my relationship more than anything.

I have a #1 in my life, but I also need #2,3,and 4 (and 69) once in a while.

 

[Ursus]

This morning, my wife 'mistakenly' head-butted me in the nose. Second time in 2 days she hit me in the face. She keeps claiming these incidents are accidents. Afterwards, we went to my Mother's and when we returned home, we were talking and she went to lean forward to come closer to me. She dipped her head and I could tell she was trying to head-butt me again - by 'mistake', of course. So, I finally did something about it. I went to her purse, took out $100 and told her I was charging her a SERVICE FEE for trying to hit me a 3rd time. I told her that all future incidents of a similar nature will also cost her $100 in SERVICE FEES.

So, now I have an extra $100 to hobby with this week. I am wondering who I should go see. Might go see Kelly in Kitchener.

I was thinking back to 2011 while I was in Japan. I was living with my girlfriend and she was shit-testing me by staying out all day and not returning home. On the 8th day of her doing this, I broke up with her and told I was leaving the next morning to go see my girlfriend in China. At that point, she too hit me in the face. So, maybe that is just the way things are - that is, women will become violent periodically when they can't control their emotions.

 

[RealTallGuy]

@Ursus - Amen, brother.. as usual the voice of "as it is" verses the normal PC spin-doctoring that usually flowers with lovely words but is almost always 100% hollow on substance.

 

[Billy18]

to meet my needs without my life having to be more complicated by having a new relationship added to it. It's fun to see different looking women too and there's no concern over commitment. I have a couple I visit regularly now.

 

[Billy18]

I've given up on serious relationships, too many abusive women